personal problem !!

[new_in_chip_city]

tell me .....for an incredibly shy guy....how do u approach a girl. Just to tell her that she is so pure and beautiful and that all i want to know is her name ???

[new_in_chip_city]

no no man...u don't understand....i am not in love with this girl....the thing is that i just wanna know her name. But i am not too sure if i am game for that too.

[_arnab_]

subbu did u talk with her ? :->

[Narain]

tell me .....for an incredibly shy guy....how do u approach a girl. Just to tell her that she is so pure and beautiful and that all i want to know is her name ???

The best method I think is 'don't tell her she is pure and beautiful until you are free with her to tell something like that'....... and try to rephrase your sentence........... why should you tell she is pure? That may make her think that you have atleast some suspicion in her purity. You don't have to tell her she is beautiful, if a lot of others than you think she really is beautiful..... as she might be tired of hearing that and she suspect you want to get some undue advantage by that flattery.

So try something else, like 'if you meet her in a temple tell her that you just thought it is the Goddess in front of you'........... improvise something......... Try to present it in half funny and half serious way......... but only after you make friendship with her.

So to know her name just approch her and ask her name. Do not deliberately creat a scene to meet her and pretend that was spontaneous. Try to be yourself.

[new_in_chip_city]

wow...that was some advice...NARAIN....but actually by pur i meant that her beauty is so pure with no artificiality. And abt the u r beautiful thing...i think i will follow ur advice.
but yaar...the real problem lies there only....i just don't know how to approach her ???
Ok i will give u some really advantageous points. Firstly we study in the same tution centre.....secondly we return by the same metro all alone....i mean she is not with her friends and so am i. But all i can do is stare at her stealthily. But she looks so deadly serious type of girl that i kinda feel scared to approach her.
So what to do ??

[intelomkar]

No need to do any drama.

If it happens to me then i'll go straight and ask her name.

[neelakantankk]

@new, you both go to the same tuition centre,come by same metro, man you've got it made. Just walk up to her and talk to her. So SIMPLE!!!

[neelakantankk]

BTW, be a little attentive and maybe you won't have to ask her name.

[junymathew]

tell me .....for an incredibly shy guy....how do u approach a girl. Just to tell her that she is so pure and beautiful and that all i want to know is her name ???

oh :D show her i will go ask her name and will tell u... :-) u jus wanna know her name na....

jus kidddn yaaar....

~~Juny~~

[new_in_chip_city]

OK....NOW HOW CAN I BE MORE INVENTIVE ??? I MEAN SUPPOSE IF I WALK UP TO HER THAN HOW DO I START THE CONVERSATION ???